Would dating be filled with as much suspense and anticipation if we were more transparent and we knew what the other was thinking?  I wonder…!

We recently received a question from one of our readers: Daniel writes:

Q. I am dating a great woman that I have known for a few years and we only recently transitioned into dating each other. We have a great time when we are together, however, I’m uncertain if she is really into me?  Short of me asking her outright, how do I know if she is interested?

A. Daniel – let’s break it down and show you some indicators that are generally signs that she fancies you!

  • Is she smiling when she is with you? Not just any smile – one of those big smiles that light up her whole face?
  • Does she laugh at your jokes and is she engaged in your conversation and your stories?
  • Is she responsive to your messages and suggestions for dates?
  • Does she stay close to you and happy to embrace and not pull away?

If you are into her and showing your interest she will respond in kind and be responsive to your gestures.

My suggestion – keep it simple and continue to demonstrate your interest. If she is left guessing, experiencing silent pauses in between dates or there is too much time between dates this is a downer for any woman and she will get bored and move on.

Women are more complicated than men when it comes to matters of the heart – with a tendency to over think and over analysis conversations, kisses, follow up and the like. However, if you are making the effort, doing the hard (a.k.a. fun) yards – look closely she is telling you all you need to know and you won’t be left pondering if she fancies you.

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