1. Arrive before her
If you are meeting out, dont leave her hanging bro! Arrive at least 5 minutes prior to the arranged meeting time. If you are picking her up, be on time not early. She will need every minute to ensure she is looking smashing.
2. Confidence is Key
If youre nervous, have a shot! Dont get smashed. A quick shot will calm your nerves. Girls love a confident man. This is also an ideal moment to pop a mint. You dont want her to smell the alcohol and think she is dating a booze hound.
3. Kiss her!
Not on the lips silly. Thats a bit forward. Upon her arrival, go for her cheek and if you can do a hug / kiss combination, thats a double whammy. Touching early works wonders for chemistry and gets the date off on the right foot.
4. The Banter
Have you got good chat? Think of 5 things you could ask your date to get to know her on a deeper level. Forget the ordinary interview questions. Read the paper so you are enlightened about world events. Get an insight into her views. More importantly ask questions.
5. The Two Fs
Fun be you, but the fun you! Problems, hell we all have them but we dont want to hear about it on the first date save that for married life. We want to know that you have a fun side. Funny! Girls love funny. Caution dont attempt this if you are just not funny!
6. Be Attentive
If you cant keep your eyes on the lady on the first date, not much hope for the rest of your lives. A wondering eye indicates a lack of interest and makes a woman feel that she doesnt cut it. The only outcome from this scenario will be you wont make the cut and will be placed on the do not call register.
7. Dont be Tight
This feminist business drives me nuts. Lets cut to the chase, if you dont pay, we think you are tight. Pay and dont make a fuss. Women dont generally date to get a free meal. If she isnt worth paying for, you shouldnt be dating her.
8. Touch / Body Language
Dont overstep the mark too early or you could blow it. Light touches on the arm and looking into her eyes are both fine. Keep your body language open and facing her. These simple things show her that you dig her. Women can gauge a lot just by the way a man positions himself. One more thing, do the lean in to show you are interested.
9. Be a Gentleman
Open doors. Let her out of the elevator first. Keep her warm and offer her your jacket if its cold. Walk her to her car. Yes you heard right. Chivalry rocks!
9 Plus 1 more point The Rules
The rules are, there are no rules! If you like her, ask her out again before you even finish the first date. I love a follow up text after the date saying how much they enjoyed me . go on, do it! If she is not into you, it doesnt matter what you do at this point. Nothing to lose!
The little things are generally the big things for women. Be clean, be fun, be attentive, be you just be and you will get a second date!
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